The book is organized so that you can take each month and focus on a particular aspect of gratitude. The author, Angeles Arrien, encourages the reader to engage with the book alone or as part of a group.
This inspired me.
So I decided to start a virtual group. So that members will have at least some vested interest in doing the “homework,” I’ve decided to charge a nominal $7/month fee to join the group. We’ll “meet” over the phone once a month to check in and to state our intentions for the coming month.
This is a 12-month program only. We can decide as a group if we want to continue for a second year.
If you join the group between now and December 16, you will receive as a bonus the PDF version of my annotated Character Building Thought Power for no cost. I usually sell this ebook for $14.99. Additional support material and handouts may be available through out the year, as appropriate.
How To Participate
Purchase a copy of Angeles Arrien’s book Living in Gratitude. You can purchase it at Amazon in hardcover or for the Kindle using the links above, or get a copy at your favorite local bookstore.
Register for the study group that I’ll be leading. I will invite you to a private Facebook group where we can interact throughout the year, as well as keep you posted on when the once-monthly calls will be scheduled. This is a 12-month program only. We can decide as a group if we want to continue for a second year.
Commit to being grateful for all the things in your life, for the more you appreciate, the more you have to appreciate!
The first call will be scheduled for sometime the first full week of January. Date and time is to be determined.
Would you be interested in an in-person group that met in Long Beach, Calif.? If there are enough people, I will make arrangements for in-person group to meet once a month in Long Beach. If you are interested, please contact me.
NOTE: I am creating this group completely on my own and am not affiliated in any way with Angeles Arrien.
Monthly Topics from Living in Gratitude
January – Begin anew
February – Attend to the heart
March – Compassionate service
April – Mercy and atonement
May – The gift of grace
June – The Power of equanimity
July – Embracing nature
August – Cultivating peace
September – Opening to guidance and wisdom
October – Letting be and letting go
November – Grateful seeing
December – The mystic heart
Benefits of Gratitude
Sprinkled through out the book, Arrien shares research that illustrates the benefits of gratitude. Here are a few of them pulled from the book:
For Health
The studies of Dr. Michael McCollough (University of Miami) and Dr. Robert Emmons (U.C. Davis) “have shown that regularly and deliberately expressing appreciation and genuine thankfulness improves health and well-being. Study participants who kept gratitude journals and practiced self-guided exercises slept better, exercised more, experienced increased positive emotions, progressed toward personal goals more quickly, and helped others more often.”
John Demartini, developer of the Demartini Method, “discovered that the more people count their blessings and give gratitude, the more their health and sense of well-being increase.”
“Studies of the physiological effects of positive emotions related to gratitude — namely appreciation and compassion — suggest that changes for the better reliably occur in cardiovascular and immune functioning. In other words, the more we extend gratitude, appreciation and compassion, the healthier our heart and immune system become.”
For Relationships
Couples who express more gratitude and appreciation for each other stay together longer. “John Gottman’s two decades of research … reveals that couples who expres at least a five-to-one ratio of appreciations to complaints stay married and increase their longevity together. Those who have more complaints than appreciation are more apt to divorce or separate.”
For Happiness
“Researcher Robert Emmons … confirms that grateful people are less lonely, bitter, isolated, unforgiving or indifferent…. Everett Worthington … notices that people who forgive find greater peace and acceptance, and the return of hope fosters more well-being.”
One way creative professionals can use their blogs is to distribute samples of their work. Here are some ideas:
Food Professionals
Post images of your creations with recipes. You can either post recipes for your more basic dishes … ones that can be found elsewhere … or your more difficult recipes … ones readers would rather have you do that try out themselves. Either way, you build rapport with your readers and get them thinking of your food offerings.
Artists, Crafters and Other Artisans
Take pictures of your work and post them on your blog. Use the alt tag, as I discussed in my last post, to help people find your work. In addition to the image, explain a bit about it: what inspired it? how was it created? etc.
Writers, Authors and Poets
A blog is a great way to give out sample snippets and chapters of your work. You can also use it to serialize it, as well. If you use a membership program to turn your blog into a membership site, you can even post entire pieces of your work, but only make a small portion of it visible to those who haven’t paid to see the whole thing.
Singers, Dancers and Other Entertainers
Post video clips of your performances. Include along with the video some information about what they are viewing. When did it happen? Who was the audience? What was the purpose? Did you have any special inspiration in choosing that particular clip?
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Want to make sure it gets on Amazon and the Kindle?
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One way you can spread the word about your brand is to publish books and ebooks. There are many ways you can do that … from the imagery on your cover to the content between. Here are some tips on how you can make your books and ebooks an extension of your brand and do it effectively.
The Front Cover
Are you the expert and the main focus of your brand? Make sure that your mug is on the front cover. Here are just a few examples of books where the author has done just that.
When you put your photo on the cover of your book, it help establish you as a brand. It makes you more recognizable, and it also makes you appear more of an expert.
The Title
Will you be writing a series of books based on your brand? Then make sure your title includes your brand. The Complete Idiot’s Guide series is a brand … so is the “for Dummies” series. What about Jay Conrad Levinson’s series of guerrilla marketing books? You better believe that’s a strong brand!
Note: Notice anything else about the guerrilla marketing books? They all use a common theme of combat fatigue print in their covers … another way you can communicate branding with your cover!
The Table of Contents
The content of your book, as reflected in your table of contents, also helps build your brand. It does this not only with the topics you cover, but how your phrase the topics you cover. Is your brand humorous? Then your chapter titles should make people smirk!
The Back Cover
If you don’t want your mug on the front cover, at least put it on the back. The back cover is also an excellent place to put a strategically written bio that positions you as a go-to resource.
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I’m a bit overwhelmed with work this week so I leave you with this thought:
Everything you do and say can affect your online presence. Take the sad case of Mel Gibson. His anti-Semitic tirades and the leaked recording of him threatening his estranged wife has hurt his career. People don’t want to see his films and filmmakers are wary of including him in the cast.
How you behave in public … at the grocery store, at a networking event, at the movies … can have an affect on your online presence. You never know who will be paying attention, and whether or not they will be blogging, Tweeting or online video-ing what they see and hear.
So, if you’re polite and respectable whenever you are in public, you’ll avoid all the crap that folks like Mel Gibson and these days Charlie Sheen are having to go through.